Booking Masses Online

Mass intentions can now be booked online! To book a Mass follow these simple steps:

  1. Go to www.oxfordoratory.org.uk/massbookings, which will take you to our PayPal donations page. You don’t need to have a PayPal account — you can pay by card without signing up.
  2. Choose how much you would like to offer as a stipend.
  3. Select ‘Mass Intention’ from the drop-down menu.
  4. Click ‘Donate’ (if you have a PayPal account) or ‘Donate with a card’ (if you don’t have a PayPal account).
  5. In the box that says ‘Write a note (optional)’, fill in the name of the person or the intention for which you would like a Mass to be offered.
  6. Complete your payment details, and you’re done!

There isn’t currently a way of co-ordinating online bookings, which means we can’t guarantee bookings for a particular date. If you would like a Mass to be said on a particular day, you can enter this in the note with your intention and we’ll do our best, but please be aware that the Mass may be said on another date.

If you prefer to do things the old-fashioned way, you can also book Masses by writing a cheque to ‘The Oxford Oratory’ together with a note of the Mass intention and your contact details, and posting it to us at: Mass Intentions, The Oratory, 25 Woodstock Road, Oxford. OX2 6HA.

What to do when you can’t get to confession

When it’s not possible to go to confession, perfect contrition can also obtain the forgiveness of all sin, including mortal sins. Perfect contrition is a sorrow for sins and a repentance motivated by the love of God (not just fear of punishment). It includes within it a resolution to make a sacramental confession at the next opportunity. (CCC 1451–1452) Perfect contrition is a state of the soul, but we may express it in prayer through the words of the Act of Contrition used during sacramental confession.

It is also important to remember that while it is a very good practice to make regular confession of all of our sins, we are only required to confess mortal sins, because mortal sin separates us from the life of God. “For a sin to be mortal, three conditions must together be met: ‘Mortal sin is sin whose object is grave matter and which is also committed with full knowledge and deliberate consent.’” (CCC 1857) If we have not committed a mortal sin, then we do not need to be afraid that we have been unable to go to confession.

Forms of the Act of Contrition

O my God, because you are so good, I am very sorry that I have sinned against you, and with the help of your grace, I will try not to sin again. Amen.

O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended thee, and I detest all my sins, because I dread the loss of heaven and the pains of hell, but most of all because they offend thee, my God, who art all good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve with the help of thy grace to confess my sins, to do penance, and to amend my life. Amen.

I love thee, Jesus, my Love, above all things. I repent with my whole heart for having offended thee. Never permit me to separate myself from thee again. Grant that I may love thee always; and then do with me what thou wilt.

My God, I am sorry for my sins with all my heart. In choosing to do wrong and failing to do good, I have sinned against you whom I should love above all things. I firmly intend, with your help, to do penance, to sin no more, and to avoid whatever leads me to sin.

The Madonna Della Strada has been featuring in all of our streamed Masses. The original icon is in the Gesù, the first church of the Society of Jesus in Rome. Our image can be seen in old photos of the church hanging where the hymn numbers go now. Pray for us, O Holy Mother of God!

Tune in for Mass of the Annunciation at 6pm and sung Vespers at 6:45pm. www.oxfordoratory.org.uk/stream #oxfordoratory

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Feast of the Annunciation

In addition to the two advertised Masses on our live stream, we will also sing Vespers at 6:45pm to celebrate the Feast of the Annunciation.

You will be able to watch here: oxfordoratory.org.uk/stream

Subscribe to our YouTube channel to get automatic notifications when we are live. It’s completely free, and our streaming will become easier if we can make it past 1000 subscribers.

What to do when you can’t get to Mass

When we cannot get to Mass, there is not substitute. There is nothing else on earth that comes close to being there as Christ becomes present under the forms of bread and wine on our altar. We should express our sadness and our desire to be united with Jesus in our prayers to him. This is called an act of spiritual communion, whether we use our own words or a prayer composed by others. Some of these are provided below.

The Catechism says:

If…for other grave cause participation in the celebration of the Eucharist is impossible, it is specially recommended that the faithful…engage in prayer for an appropriate amount of time personally or in a family or, as occasion offers, in groups of families. (CCC 2183)

When there is no Mass we can attend, we are not obliged to watch Mass online, although many will find this a helpful way of praying with the Church. We will be streaming two Masses live each day from the Oratory through our YouTube channel. Many other churches are also streaming their Masses. We have included some links below.

Our stream will be live at the following times:

Monday–Saturday 8am (EF Low Mass); 6pm (English Low Mass with sermon)

Sunday 8am (EF Low Mass with sermon); 11am (Latin Sung Mass with sermon); 5:30pm (Vespers & Benediction)

You could also spend some time reflecting on the readings of Mass each day. These can be found at universalis.com for the Ordinary Form, or divinumofficium.com for the Extraordinary Form.

Both websites also provide you with all the prayers of the Divine Office in each form. After the Mass, this is the greatest prayer of the Church, and consists of portions of the Psalms that are recited at different times of the day. One way of marking Sunday as a special day might be to say Morning Prayer (Lauds). We plan to stream Vespers and Benediction each Sunday. The monks of Abbaye Sainte-Madeleine du Barroux stream the full office every day, which you can listen to here: barrouxchant.com.

Above all, at this time, is important that we have regular habits of prayer. Prayer should be something special because it is time spent with someone important to us, not because it is something rare. Our routines and familiar prayers should be a consolation while we look forward to getting back to Mass and receiving Holy Communion.

Our Live Stream and Recordings

oxfordoratory.org.uk/stream

Readings and Prayers for the Mass and Divine Office

universalis.com
divinumofficium.com

Other streams

Vatican News (Papal Daily Mass)
St Gregory & Augustine, Oxford (Daily Mass)
Lent in Isolation (Daily reflection, daily Mass)
Institute of Christ the King Sovereign Priest, Gricigliano (Solemn Mass on Sundays)
Abbaye Sainte-Madeleine du Barroux (Divine Office, daily).

Prayers

Psalm 41 (42)

Like the deer that yearns for running streams,
so my soul is yearning for you, my God.
My soul is thirsting for God, the God of my life;
when can I enter and see the face of God?
My tears have become my bread, by night, by day,
as I hear it said all the day long: “Where is your God?”
These things will I remember as I pour out my soul:
how I would lead the rejoicing crowd into the house of God,
amid cries of gladness and thanksgiving, the throng wild with joy.
Why are you cast down, my soul, why groan within me?
Hope in God; I will praise him still, my saviour and my God.
My soul is cast down within me as I think of you,
from the country of Jordan and Mount Hermon, from the Hill of Mizar.
Deep is calling on deep, in the roar of waters;
your torrents and all your waves swept over me.
By day the Lord will send his loving kindness;
by night I will sing to him, praise the God of my life.
I will say to God, my rock: “Why have your forgotten me?
Why do I go mourning oppressed by the foe?”
With cries that pierce me to the heart, my enemies revile me,
saying to me all day long: “Where is your God?”
Why are you cast down, my soul, why groan within me?
Hope in God; I will praise him still, my saviour and my God.

Psalm 62 (63)

O God, you are my God, for you I long; for you my soul is thirsting.
My body pines for you like a dry, weary land without water.
So I gaze on you in the sanctuary to see your strength and your glory.
For your love is better than life, my lips will speak your praise.
So I will bless you all my life, in your name I will lift up my hands.
My soul shall be filled as with a banquet, my mouth shall praise you with joy.
On my bed I remember you. On you I muse through the night
for your have been my help; in the shadow of your wings I rejoice.
My soul clings to you; your right hand holds me fast.
Those who seek to destroy my life shall go down to the depths of the earth.
They shall be put into the power of the sword and left as the prey of the jackals.
But the king shall rejoice in God; (all that swear by him shall be blessed,)
for the mouth of liars shall be silenced.

An Act of Spiritual Communion by Saint Alphonsus de Liguori

My Jesus, I believe you are present in the Blessed Sacrament. I love you above all things and I desire to receive you in my soul. Since I cannot receive you in Holy Communion now, at least come spiritually into my heart. As if you have already come to me, I embrace you and join myself wholly to you; do not allow me to distance myself from you. Amen.

Another Prayer of Spiritual Communion

I wish, Lord, to receive you with the purity, humility and devotion
with which your most holy Mother received you,
with the spirit and fervour of the saints.

Anima Christi

Soul of Christ, be my sanctification;
Body of Christ, be my salvation;
Blood of Christ, fill all my veins;
Water of Christ’s side, wash out my stains;
Passion of Christ, my comfort be;
O good Jesu, listen to me;
In thy wounds I fain would hide;
Never to be parted from thy side;
Guard me, should the foe assail me;
Call me when my life shall fail me;
Bid me come to thee above,
With all thy saints to sing thy love,
World without end. Amen.